You can't always be positive. In reality if you were positive all of the time, how could people truly count on the truth of your character? They couldn't.
Life is wonderfully balanced. In order to be truly positive you must experience substantial negatives as well. That's simply the way the world works. As Carl Jung once said, "The brighter the light the darker the shadow." I think that really applies here as well.
In my life, I try and keep my writing pretty positive and optimistic because I'm out in this world to help others love deeply and maybe, just maybe, something I talk about in depth will help someone bring some light into their heart. For years I've been able to pull a lesson or learning point out of even the worst situations to help evoke others. But what I'd like to share with you is that I am not constantly positive. Actually I don't ever force myself to be because that only creates inauthenticity.
I have very dark moments and days at certain times. In reality the more I love with everything I have, the more extremely I feel agony, hurt, loss, and everything else that can make your hands shake when it comes about. I feel those things now more than I ever have before. The softening of a cold heart many years ago back has exposed it to be exposed, exposed, and gives it the capability to feel everything intensely.
So sometimes, writing something that's optimistic, is essentially me fighting as hard as I'm able to to keep a positive perspective on life. In reality, some days are a lot tougher than others. Some days, I feel a bit like I'll barely breath.
Throughout the years, I've learnt to express these things through my art and pour myself out through my writing and I am so fortunate to have that. So if you are wrestling, just know, I struggle as well.
I struggle hard. And with all that, I love hard.
Life is wonderfully balanced. In order to be truly positive you must experience substantial negatives as well. That's simply the way the world works. As Carl Jung once said, "The brighter the light the darker the shadow." I think that really applies here as well.
In my life, I try and keep my writing pretty positive and optimistic because I'm out in this world to help others love deeply and maybe, just maybe, something I talk about in depth will help someone bring some light into their heart. For years I've been able to pull a lesson or learning point out of even the worst situations to help evoke others. But what I'd like to share with you is that I am not constantly positive. Actually I don't ever force myself to be because that only creates inauthenticity.
I have very dark moments and days at certain times. In reality the more I love with everything I have, the more extremely I feel agony, hurt, loss, and everything else that can make your hands shake when it comes about. I feel those things now more than I ever have before. The softening of a cold heart many years ago back has exposed it to be exposed, exposed, and gives it the capability to feel everything intensely.
So sometimes, writing something that's optimistic, is essentially me fighting as hard as I'm able to to keep a positive perspective on life. In reality, some days are a lot tougher than others. Some days, I feel a bit like I'll barely breath.
Throughout the years, I've learnt to express these things through my art and pour myself out through my writing and I am so fortunate to have that. So if you are wrestling, just know, I struggle as well.
I struggle hard. And with all that, I love hard.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Going through a rough patch in life? I put together some quotes about death to help you if you are suffering through the loss of a loved one.
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